Trying to Let Go I cling tighter to a sliver of the memory that contains the moments to my recovery. Crates created by the passion of my loss for a time hard won when the battle was fierce with the promise of victory. Are these tears? Am I really crying? Or am I dying? bittersweet moments I wish for all my days but now that now my gaze must look North and not South. But how can I let go? What must I do with those sweet moments of release of death and grime? It was the best in my life! How can I take the dive in these murky waters alone and unprotected. I must leave it all behind though let go! Or drown by its weight now my foe
You must learn to let go. Release the stress. You were never in control anyway.― Steve Maraboli
If you’ve recently looked in the mirror after one hard day and wondered when you got so old – but you’re not, you my friend may be stressed.
Today, we use stress as if it is a badge of honor. We talk about being stressed day and night, as if it were a prize that we have to brag about.
This leads to little things happening that add up to becoming BIG problems:
- We remember nothing from moment to moment
- It feels like your bodies are attacking itself – literally, every patch of skin bones and organs are at war with each other.
- you can’t eat or you eat too much.
- You can’t sleep or you sleep too much.
- You nightly dreams become hellish – a monster you can’t escape.
- You can’t decide whether to sit or stand, go or stay. It’s all a mystery!
- A small bitter little monster is knocking away all day at your head. Trying to tear it off your shoulders.
- You get angry and then don’t know why and frankly you just don’t care at this point.
- Absolutely nothing is worth smiling or laughing about!
- You have a constant river of sweat pouring down your body. Even when you know the temperature should not allow this!
- And nothing you do ever turns out right!
There are so many things that can go wrong because you are stressed. The greatest of them all is that it can kill you.
So what are you going to do about it?
What you are not going to do is continue this way. Because if you do it could be that you really have developed a tolerance for being stressed, which is not good.
The road that seems the easiest is often the most dangerous and the familiar can be so deceptive that your demise creeps up before you can fight it off. To combat stress maybe we need to stop leaning on the wrong people (yes frenemies, they may seems a strange breed but they are a dangerous one!) Also, we need to go to bed and get some sleep (even though I should have been at mine an hour ago, we will get it right). Next, stop overthinking things and just go with the flow. Stop giving people your time, and don’t stretch yourself – who cares what they think. Only you know what you are going through. And finally, stop overlooking great opportunities that may seems difficult but which will bring the desired results. Give back the title and trophy that is stress and live your best life. Shalom!
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.Isaiah 43:18
Don’t wait for a new week, a new day or the new year to start making changes. You know what you want and you know how to get it!
There are a lot of things in the past that in the past I have been stuck on. Sometimes I look back and which I could go back to make some tweaks here and there. Perhaps prevent a certain meeting or totally erase another. If only I could.
But sadly there is nothing we can do about what we have already done. But wouldn’t life be easy in the present if we could?
We will never know because it is impossible. While we focus on the past, our present is passing. There it is waving at us. It looks sorry for us- as it should, what a waste of a present!
Yes the present is a gift that will keep giving if we remain fully committed to it. Yet, many of us are careless with it and are either looking behind or ahead, but never living in the present.
We hurry to do everything and then wonder where the time went. We hope that one day we can get to live in the present. However it has been there all along, slipping between our fingers until very little is left to enjoy.
It’s important to remember what matters, let go of what is keeping you from holding to the present that you have for as long as you have it.