You only have time for people who deserve you and see your value.

Seeing the above somewhere made the proverb, all that glitters is not gold, even clearer. Distractions can be found everywhere and is both internal and external. We may think being lazy benefits us in the short term but it could be the difference between getting to that place you need to be or staying right where you are.
Bait and switch usually refers to a tactic that sees a projected desirable outcome as in reality, a scam.
So, in Life we may see the easy way out or the brightest light as the think to take us from point A to B. However, when we get closer the easy way out could lead to many dead ends and the bright light, just a spark quick to burn out.
So we do not read the fine print and don’t sweat the small stuff until they get to large that they threaten to overrun us.
It is important to know all you can before you make that move but also to see things for what they truly are and not what you would like them to be.
“Face reality as it is, not as it was or as you wish it to be.”
Jack Welch